Make sure you listen to the advice of your family and friends.
They know you best, and care about you more than the rude, violent, controlling boyfriend that buys you the same cheap flowers after an altercation.
For some, the fears go away without a second thought. That is the main reason a boyfriend can become a controlling nightmare.
It is hard to pinpoint the answer to why this behavior exists, but, if you feel as if you are being controlled, being able to identify the behavior is your first step to freedom.
Taking the time to look within yourself and stop the behaviors or motivations that are making you accept an abusive relationship is the next.
If you try to question his whereabouts or activities, he will become defensive.He may not always be right, completely, but he is never wrong. However, a fool AND his gold have special meaning to the controlling boyfriend. It’s hard to believe, but his confidence level is actually lower than yours.He will buy you nice jewelry, take you to expensive restaurants and maybe even offer to pay a debt of yours. This is the most upsetting trait that a controlling boyfriend can display.If you are in a relationship where it seems that you have no time to yourself, chances are you have a controlling boyfriend. There is no more “girls night out” for you and your friends, unless he is with you. When you do go out, it is to an event that HE chooses.You may not feel like going to a movie, but it is what he wants to do, for example.